Understanding Failure , thus minimize it
F: Chronic Frustration :
Chronic Frustration means the goal we have set for ourselves or image we have of ourselves is inadequate or both .
The key remedy lies in reworking on one's goal and priorities and thus altering one's own self image in the required manner
A: Aggressiveness :Aggressiveness by itself could be positive and becomes a failure trait only when it's misdirected.The best channel for all aggression is therefore in working towards some goal.
I:Insecurity :Often we compare our actual abilities to an imagined perfect ideal.Man is only goal seeking mechanism not arriving ever at any absolute quality or destination.
L:Loneliness :Loneliness is best countered by getting accepted through social contacts and contribution without fear or ridicule or humiliation
UR:Uncertainty: Uncertainty is rooted in sheer inaction for fear of possible failure or rejections.
E:Emptiness: Emptiness is often generated by trying for success to please others inconsistent with one's own true inner needs. naturally , so even after obtaining the desired objective, one feels unfulfilled and empty , as if he had got something which he had not deserved.
Thus understanding the various issues involving the failure mechanism within, one could help unravel the bottlenecks to progress.
Chronic Frustration means the goal we have set for ourselves or image we have of ourselves is inadequate or both .
The key remedy lies in reworking on one's goal and priorities and thus altering one's own self image in the required manner
A: Aggressiveness :Aggressiveness by itself could be positive and becomes a failure trait only when it's misdirected.The best channel for all aggression is therefore in working towards some goal.
I:Insecurity :Often we compare our actual abilities to an imagined perfect ideal.Man is only goal seeking mechanism not arriving ever at any absolute quality or destination.
L:Loneliness :Loneliness is best countered by getting accepted through social contacts and contribution without fear or ridicule or humiliation
UR:Uncertainty: Uncertainty is rooted in sheer inaction for fear of possible failure or rejections.
E:Emptiness: Emptiness is often generated by trying for success to please others inconsistent with one's own true inner needs. naturally , so even after obtaining the desired objective, one feels unfulfilled and empty , as if he had got something which he had not deserved.
Thus understanding the various issues involving the failure mechanism within, one could help unravel the bottlenecks to progress.
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